The main aim is not to be afraid of yourself

Several months ago I participated at training Effective conference. Actually, I didnt think it will be useful for me, because I wasnt a faint person, who doesnt know what he wants from life.I didnt have some special problems in personal relationships and in communications with my friends/teachers/family/etc. Still, my friend invited me to visit this training and I agreed. Let it be, I thought, maybe Ill find something evoke there, who knows. To tell the truth, it was very useful for me and Ive learned a lot of interesting things about myself which helped me to communicate with other people more effective.After that training I understood that if I proceed myself (if Im not changing myself) Ill be happy and Ill constantly be able to find way out from any difficult situation.The main aim is not to be timid of yourself, to love and to accept yourself as you are. Unexpectedly for me I found out that I always was unsure in my actions, I was self-confident but only to some extent and very oft after I took some decision I tried to think over, what could happen if I acted in another way.I mean that I learned to look at my problems in simpler way, and then after I realized that actually I dont have any problems. I understood that when the person is opened, people like him and they strive after him. You dont need to be afraid and to hide your feelings, and then people start to understand you. Some of my fears from childhood disappeared now in many cases I can function my aggression towards the other people.I was able to determine aim in my life, my home(a) state of mind changed into more vivid and confident. Communication with other people became more opened I started to control my feelings. I learned that everything in my life depends on me, not on somebody else. That there are a lot of great possibilities, I only have to open my eyes and to range them. Before I was loosing confidence in stress situations, and now Im able to control my feelings.We made dif ferent kinds of tests and I understood that I like to clash with my friends and that I dont show to people, who are close to me, feelings expressing my good attitude to them. I received practical knowledge in the field of understanding of human emotions and problems I learned a lot of facts about myself with help of self-analysis and from opinions of other people. It was the unique experience for me and it helped me greatly in my life.